How to Get Your Ex Back Using Psychological Tricks

Some relationships are meant to end and can make a person better in handling a relationship next time around. Although it is very difficult and painful, you must accept it and move on. But sometimes a relationship deserves a second chance. To do so, you might be forced to do some things differently such as employing psychological tricks in order to win back the affection of your ex partner.

  • Appear as though you are okay. Even if you are not and even if your heart is crumbling and you feel no sense of smiling again, try your best to appear okay. You will only give your partner something to feel good about if he has already moved on and you are still stuck desperately wanting him. By appearing okay, you will give your ex something about which to think.

  • Be desirable. The statement “single is sexy” can prove its point. Since you are now single, you are bankable once again. You can now get to know a lot of people without having a partner to consider. The more others notice you, the more your ex partner will notice you, too. The more you are desired by others, the more your ex will be challenged to have you back. Remember that a person wants someone or something that other people want, too.
  • Employ a jealousy trick. A little jealously won’t hurt; in fact, it might help. Now that you are single, many will pile up at your door. Knowing that, your ex partner will feel challenged. Women and men both like winning challenges. But be careful to employ this trick in little doses. You do not want your ex to think badly of you.
  • Highlight your good features. Maybe you are good with kids and she is fond of children, too. You can demonstrate the when your ex is around. Maybe you are good in the kitchen and your ex loves to eat; if so, you can whip up a meal for your ex and the rest of your common friends for a get together. Highlighting these features will make your ex think about whether or not she made the right decision in breaking up with you. People like people who are ultimately good and have admirable traits.
  • Limit interaction. The less you interact with him, the more your ex will be psyched to know what has been going on with you. Make it a point to make your absence felt, but not so much that you appear indifferent or apathetic.
  • Be the person your ex always wanted. You do not have to overhaul your whole self to achieve this. People are genuinely attracted to people who are the better versions of themselves. We always go for the first rate, so be like that. Be the better version of yourself this time.

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About the Author: Roberta Southworth is a psychiatrist by profession. She likes to help out people by writing informative tips on how people can to solve their family and relationship issues. She is currently staying in Ireland. She has 5 years of couple counseling experience.

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