How to Figure out Someone’s Interest in you

It’s really hard to make out whether someone likes you passionately or not. There are many occasions when you feel that you are sure there is something from the other side but ultimately, there was nothing. There are many signs which help you in figuring out if someone’s interests in you are based on love or not. All you need is to look for them. Following ways will help you in figuring out other’s interest in you.

  • Be attentive while having a conversation with that person. Is he making his best effort to keep the conversation going or trying desperately to finish up? If he talks and tries making the conversation longer than what he is usually interested into and will try doing anything for talking with you. If he is faster than usual and repeatedly makes an excuse to escape, then forget about everything and find someone interested in talking with you or who really likes you.
  • Has it become common that you run into him at different times and places? Is he there in the elevator frequently the same time you are using it? Do you sight him repeatedly in the market, the same time you’re on a shopping trip? If he is always trying to run into you, then it’s more than likely, that he is obsessed with you.

  • Is he always having reasons for spending time with you? Is he always telling you about his plans for the weekend and asks you to accompany or is enquiring you about your plans? Is he always asking you for a company or willing you to give one? Someone likes to be with the one, whom he likes, all the time.
  • Does he cancel his plans so that he can be with you? Is he always willing to be at the place¬† where you’re? All this also means that he wants your presence. This is also a sign for telling whether that person is obsessed with you or not and likes you that way or not.
  • Has he been calling you for no specific reason? Has he suddenly become interested in your likings and hobbies? If this is the case then he surely likes you that way.¬† Otherwise why would he call without any specific reason or purpose?

This is only a small number of signs for telling whether a person’s interests in you are based on love or not. But if you want to be sure, then the best way is to ask yourself. Go ask him or spend time with him alone to give him a chance for telling on his own. Figuring out someone’s interest in you will require some effort on your part, especially if the person is shy or reserved. If he shows some of the above signs then you take the first move to find out, he might be the “special one” meant for you and whom you also like.

Filed Under: Family & Relationships


About the Author: Roberta Southworth is a psychiatrist by profession. She likes to help out people by writing informative tips on how people can to solve their family and relationship issues. She is currently staying in Ireland. She has 5 years of couple counseling experience.

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