How to Attract a Younger Man

Some say an age difference is not a factor in a romantic relationship, arguing that as long as there is love, respect and trust the relationship is bound to work. In the modern world, relationships between older men and younger women are growing in number. Men associate youth with beauty and freshness, and women often perceive older men as mature, established and responsible. Relationships between an older woman and a younger man, however, often draw more attention—although such relationship are gaining greater acceptance in society. Attracting a younger man depends on many factors.

  • Age factor. To attract a younger man you should not let your age be a factor; after all, age is just a number. The way we think of or perceive ourselves determines the way we act, so if you think you are old you will act and feel old. Feel youthful inside and you will show youthfulness outside.

  • Great looks and great style. Age should not be an issue when choosing the type of clothes you want to wear. Often older women think they cannot wear a certain style just because they see it predominantly among younger women. If you have the body for it, then go ahead and wear it. That said, it is also important to dress modestly. Refrain from showing too much skin unless you are at the beach, since too much skin can convey desperation.
  • Superiority complex. Older women generally have more experience and have achieved more in life. Do not let this be a hindrance that may intimidate a younger man. Find a balance between impressing him and staying humble.
  • Fun. You want to appear to be a fun person so you can match his youthful energy, but you don’t have to do extreme sports or activities just to show you are fun. You can simply tag along with him to watch a game, go on backpacking adventures, try different sports, etc. Remember it doesn’t have to be extreme: just knowing you enjoy some of the things he likes is enough.
  • Clinginess. Women who are clingy and needy are generally a turn off. Calling your beau every hour or checking up on where he is can be extremely irritating. Older woman tend to be less clingy and needy because they have learned from experiences and are more secure in themselves. An older woman knows that couples do not necessarily need to be in touch with each other 24/7, which is an attractive characteristic in a woman.

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About the Author: Roberta Southworth is a psychiatrist by profession. She likes to help out people by writing informative tips on how people can to solve their family and relationship issues. She is currently staying in Ireland. She has 5 years of couple counseling experience.

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