How to Transform Friendship Successfully into Love

Almost everyone likes to be devoted in a relationship. Sharing what is yours with your love may even cause a marriage. Besides, being in a love relation with a friend is even better, as the person you love will know what makes you sad, angry, frustrated or happy, as a friend. Romantic relationships, which began with friendship between the two persons, are more likely to last longer. Given below are few things, by following which, your friend will become your lover.

People, who feel strongly for their friend, must ensure that their feelings are true. If they have had a breakup or divorce recently should ensure that it doesn’t happens over again. They should also make sure that they are out of the desperate state, in which they are drawn towards anyone who appeals to them even slightly, which usually happens after a breakup. When the two friends have made up their mind to enter into a relationship, then both of them must ensure that they have overcome their past relationship.

After people have thought deeply about their feelings and decided firmly that they want to transform the friendship into a warm love relationship, they can talk to their friend and carefully explain how they feel about their relationship. The person should listen to the friend carefully and analyze the sayings properly to know what he/she is up to. If it is not so, then the person who is feeling that way, must accept the decision and not impose anything. However if it is so that the friend wants to transform the friendship into love relationship, then both of them should proceed cautiously so that the friendship is not harmed.

There should be proper discussion, between the two persons, while transforming the relationship. Proper communication should be there now and also in future. They should tell each other what their goals and aspirations are as everything proceeds. There are many things which need to be discussed, like, whether both of them want children or not? Or what kind of a habitat they want? Or will the other one able to shift if one gets a job offer somewhere else? Discussing all this is important so that there is no clash of opinions can be avoided and decisions can be made easily in the future.

Activities which were done together as friends should be continued once the relationship has evolved. What made them friends and strengthened their friendship also increases love between them. If they used to hang out at the mall, they should continue doing it. Entering into a love relationship doesn’t mean that the friendship has finished. It has just evolved into a new beautiful relationship.

Love relationships blossom from these measures.

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About the Author: Roberta Southworth is a psychiatrist by profession. She likes to help out people by writing informative tips on how people can to solve their family and relationship issues. She is currently staying in Ireland. She has 5 years of couple counseling experience.

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