How to Stop Your Husband from Using Abusive Language


Abusing may be verbal or physical. Verbal abuse means using bad words in oral and written manner. There are many cases in various courts based on this complaint. This is a very similar situation faced by thousands of women after marriage. The lovely husband turns rude and converse with verbally abusive words with his wife. What could be the cause for this change in his behavior? This article will explain you to have an idea about this. What problems are caused for the wife who is living with an abusive husband? The problems faced may be depression, inferiority complex, anorexia (loss of appetite), insomnia (lack of sleep) and anemia. These reasons some time goes to the extent of suicide. If your husband is abusive, this article will help you a lot to change him.

Love: Whenever your husband uses abusive words, most of the women lose their self-confidence and worthiness and think themselves as inferior, but this not the case. You should not leave your confidence. But in most case following things will happen:

  • You may thing that this treatment is needed for you.
  • You confess that the fault is yours.
  • You will start believing that you are useless.
  • You don’t wish to live anymore.
  • You may think that all these are your fate or karma.
  • You will become isolated.
  • You won’t speak frankly.

If the mentioned thoughts are in your mind, then you must throw them away. This is a wrong assumption. Think in positive manner, have a strong thought in your mind that you are not inferior to anyone.

Rational: As soon as you start believing that you are not an inferior person, the next thing you have to do is to find the cause for this problem. Finding the cause is a tough job. Try to avoid emotion and sentimental feelings, at the same time note that anger doesn’t solve anything.

Communication: This is the one and only best way to solve most of the problems. Try to communicate with your husband in peaceful place, try to have a note of his inner heart. This will give you a number of ways to find the cause of this change in his behavior.

Have a backup: If all the above plans are failed, the next thing in your hand is to have a backup support. Try to have some of your family members or relatives to support you and to talk to your husband on your side. Always don’t lose faith. Be sure that you will clinch victory in your problem.

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About the Author: Roberta Southworth is a psychiatrist by profession. She likes to help out people by writing informative tips on how people can to solve their family and relationship issues. She is currently staying in Ireland. She has 5 years of couple counseling experience.

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